Tag: grief

  • America’s New Normal

    America’s New Normal

    Let's talk grief for a moment. During the George W. Bush administration, I had the opportunity to be welcomed into the homes of many Gold Star widows. I've watched from the sidelines as they've raised their families from toddlerhood to adulthood. The youngest I met[..]
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  • Proud to know you until…

    Proud to know you until…

    They used to think I was smart. They used to applaud my courage in calling out things. They loved it when I wrote a book challenging prosperity gospel preachers. They invited me to speak from their pulpits. They asked me to speak to their women's[..]
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  • Lessons on Protesting & Praying

    Lessons on Protesting & Praying

    On every Social Media and news site I am bombarded with stories about college students rising up against the violence in the Middle East, specifically the innocent people in Gaza caught up in a war between Hamas terrorists and Israeli Defense Forces. There are fights[..]
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  • Steph’s Everything All At Once

    Steph’s Everything All At Once

      I remember watching the video on Instagram. Daughter Konnie told me about it. "Tommy is very ill," she said. "They thought it was Covid but it isn't." The boy that I know as Tommy is the man tens of thousands know as Rivs, that[..]
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  • The Take-Aways

    The Take-Aways

    The words I wrote on the chalkboard for 2020 remain there yet. They are words about greeting the New Year with a greater intention of kindness. I remember starting off the year with a sense of joy. I had so much I was looking forward[..]
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  • If Wishes Were Horses…

    If Wishes Were Horses…

    There are times when grief feels selfish. Today for instance, on the seventh anniversary of my mother's passing. It feels like an act of selfishness to even admit that I associate the holidays with her death, and that such an association leaves me feeling conflicted.[..]
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  • Hemingway’s Superstitions

    Hemingway’s Superstitions

      [caption id="attachment_4645" align="aligncenter" width="836"] Hemingway[/caption]   Hemingway's love of cats is well-documented. It is said that he had nearly 60 cats at Finca, his Cuban home. Visit Key West and you are likely to encounter some of the six-toed descendants of Hemingway's cats. The[..]
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  • A Woman of Bleak Faith

    A Woman of Bleak Faith

      Shortly after Mama died, I abandoned my position as a "Christian Blogger." Now I mostly refer to myself as a woman of bleak faith. I didn't leave my position as a Christian writer because I was angry at God. I wasn't. Mama's dying silenced[..]
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  • An Isolating Affair

    An Isolating Affair

    We were just a couple of songs into the Shabbat service on Saturday when a congregant sobs cracked across the crowded room. Those sobs soon turned into downright wails. The rabbi paused, looked, then offered words of comfort to the rest of us. Other congregants[..]
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  • The Glory of Transformation

    The Glory of Transformation

    Bean has been at our place for the past several days while his momma and Pa hike the Wallowa Mountains. This is an annual thing with Pa and his girls, this hiking into the high lakes of the Wallowas. Much to my life-long regret, my[..]
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